Dancing With Myself

[7 Year Itch]

I'm in a similar spot right now with H. He has to do his midweek visits at the house due to logitics with how far away he is staying right now, his work schedule, or D's bedtimes etc. I feel like our "separation" isn't separate enough to really have an impact on him missing us. Like your H, he sees the girls a TON (which I'm happy for on one hand) but I still don't think he has a clue of what it is really going to be like.

I do think you would look a bit hypocritical after calling him for help, to then say he isn't welcome at the house unless it's just to pick up the D's. Hard one, but maybe give it a couple of weeks to let this recent time of asking for help pass. Just curious, why do you want to state that? Is it like my situation, where you want him to have that space, do you really not WANT to see him, is he REALLY infringing on planned times, is it punishement? Just really curious of what your intentions are behind it?

Chris