Winner At A Losing Game

[karen43]

NCB,

I do think that your emails to her are falling on deaf ears. I think maybe it is time just to let her be and continue to make her own mistakes. I think it will just put more hatred and justification in her heart if you continue. I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound harsh if that is how I'm coming off. I just worry about your feelings and her replies always upset you.

I agree with Yoyo as always. I don't think your W deserves your emails! Would it be a 180 for you to try LRTing more, just limiting your emails to the kids? You have reached out to her several times, and I know this is bad for me to think but I am wondering if she gets enjoyment out of rejecting you/your efforts to communicate. I agree about getting your thoughts out on paper, but maybe not sending them? You know, they don't seem to work, just irritate or anger your W, so doing more of what works? And you know I suggest this when I am the absolute worst at LRT of course! And you know we only say this b/c we worry and care about you??? Karen