Well I need to quit reading into all of this but the fact remains there are several things that point to her being with another man. I am just going to act "as if" as much as I possibly can and avoid bringing this up to her.
She did contact me this morning and asked about the kids and if I have talked to them. I was still upset this morning so the conversation was very one worded by me. I just gave simple answers and showed no emotion, it probably came across as me being pissed and I admit I was. I handled the whole conversation wrong in the fact that I did sound pissed but the short answers I think was the correct response.