Thanks for checking in on me everyone, been very busy lately. I don't know if I should confront W about this, another example of how W could care less about her children. I told D6 that its ok to let mommy know that S5 told me about the secret.
I just have to get through summer and D and W will hardly ever see kids. maybe one night a week, if that fits into her schedule She will be the best mom for a day, buy them stuff, ice cream, movies, wow mom is great.
That's good you told D6 that. I would be SO upset about 2 very young children not under parental or adult supervision which it sounded like (until the policeman anyway). And luckily my H and I do always tell the kids you shouldn't ever have secrets from mom or dad and have drilled that into them and I think that is a good idea. I'm glad your W won't be as involved soon; I think that's probably for the best....My H is the same way he's always buying them toys and taking them to the movies or to get cookies or whatever and I think equates that with real love or something. I do think the kids love that, but not quite the same as being a stable, dependable parent like you are!!! Karen