Who knows what is the best path for the WAS to come home? I certainly don't. All I know for certain is that for the past 2 1/2 yrs what I have been doing has not worked. That is, not asking questions or accusing, trying to be attractive, happy around H, being the best I can be, showing H love, attention, support, ML whenever the opportunity/desire arose (and trying things H had always asked for but I was reluctant), being there when he was down and out, giving, giving, giving. He still went back & forth b/w OW and I.
Doesn't Michelle say if it isn't working, try something else? I just don't know what else there is besides letting H go and letting him see that I am moving on. I know I can't take anymore of his cake eating - it is making me sick and I deserve more. There comes a point where the WAS HAS to make a choice.
FA
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
