neil- whatever she says i would not believe...just listen and say i understand...it is all baloney right now- just more words to push you back...if you can detach and listen as if it was a friend telling you their sitch it will allow her space and time.... you are doing great and it is good that she is telling you things- even thought its not what you want to hear...it is a test even if she doesnt know it...:)
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