To be here or not to be here

[Snow White]

Ok again these messages came after I was gone swimming ;-)
However, I really did not talk to H at all while I was there and he was suprised when I said I had to leave to go to my parents house for dinner because he had no plans.

The oddest thing happened this afternoon. I was on facebook and my sister's husband's brother (her BIL), opened the chat window and said hi. Now I know him a little, because he is my BIL's brother but that is about it. I know that he moved out of his house (from his son 5 and wife) about a month ago but not why.

Anyways after 2 or 3 casual sentances he asked me out on a date for tonight? WTF? I was off getting my swimsuit so he then followed up with I'm sorry if I stepped over the line but, and then continued on, no one would have to know, ect, not looking for love and D could come. I came back on with a very polite thanks but no thanks and when I got back home he had sent an email asking about a walk down by the water, or whatever, that he is a good listener and very discreet. Honestly, MEN WHAT IS UP???