The 180's Im doing are for me, but I chose things that I could improve about myself but they also happened to be things that he and I had discussed before. I lost weight (38lbs!), started dressing more femininely, wearing makeup. I think that I look great, and I also think that hes noticed. Hes just so wrapped up in the other girl to notice that Im his wife, not his sister, which is how I think he thinks of me right now.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...