I realize now I have to go back and read all your stuff! I need to understand where your feelings were coming from, and what it took for you to turn them around. You are not my W, and there are a lot of differences, but there's some similarity behind it all, too.
((((Jeff)))
there's a lot to read. If you have any questions or want clarification on stuff, holler. I'll be around.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.