(Posted in Piecing Our Marriage Back Together also)
A little journaling,
4 MORE DAYS..........Wife is going from one extreme to the other Happy one minute and real quiet the next. 4th of July went great. NO tension at all. I wanted so bad to walk up to Wife and put my arms around her. But I did not. I promised her. Wife is really into her computer class. I think like me she is burying herself in it to keep busy. Me... I have been doing Yard work and my house and MIL house, Primmer the roof of the Mustang, Fixed the fence, vacuumed the pool, repaired and painted the garage door at MIL house.... The next big step for me is to discuss next Friday. We have not said one word about it to each other. I think the hour long ride to get there is going to be the Quietest, longest ride I ever took. I have NO idea what to talk about. This last week I have had tooooo many negative thoughts ruining through my pea brain. Sooo for the next 4 days I am going to be going to sleep listening to "the secret". Laws of attraction show. With positive thinking.
"See the things that you want as already yours. Know that they will to you at need. Then let them come. Don't fret and worry about them. Don't think about your lack of them. Think of them as yours, as belonging to you, as already in your possession"
Robert Collier (1885-1950)
"whether you think you can or think you can't, either way you are right"
Henry ford (1863-1947)
"what you resist persists." Earl Jung )1875-1961)
"Imagination is everything.It is the preview of life's comming attractions"
Albert Einstein (1879-1955)
later that day Update…..
I was thinking about the cat getting fed next weekend and remembered this feeding dish that has a storage bowl that feeds automatically. I went in the closet and got it out. Just then my wife called me into the living room and asked me if I ask D to come over and feed the cat next Saturday. I was holding the container and she then said we could just use that because D lives out of town. I told her that is what I was thinking but D is coming to my mom's anyway because she said she would help with our son and dog that are staying there. Sooo there is no need for me to bring it up now. IT IS DONE... I printed out the conformation letter and the directions so all that is left is for Friday to get here. (And for me to think of something to talk about during the ride)
Later
Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know