Trouble on the lake erie shore #3

[Neilh23]

so i've been tossing this around for a couple of days..

My W said to me that she feels bad that she blindsided me with this...she feels bad how it's effecting our kids.....and that she just doesn't want ot be married right now. She said she understands that it probably doesn't make sense to me, but it makes perfect sense to her....

is this a typical WAW feeling? i sorta think so...and i can sorta see her reasoning....after reading things on here anyways.

so some enlightenment would be great