Quote: I keep wanting people to know he's at fault with his actions while adding the obligatory statement that all marriages have issues. My message, "He's a jerk.. to me" said in a very gentle way. What do I get from it?
Oops! I do this too!!!
Me: We are getting a divorce. Other person: Why? Me: H wants a single life.
That is FULL of blame on H and I know it. Why do I do it? I wish I knew. But I am glad I am not alone. He *is* to blame for ending things without working on it at all, but why do I have to have everyone know this?
