"I keep wanting people to know he's at fault with his actions while adding the obligatory statement that all marriages have issues. My message, "He's a jerk.. to me" said in a very gentle way. What do I get from it?
Silly.. angry.. I get to be the victim, semi blameless."
Know that feeling.... having it very much this morning.
reading your thoughts & SC & purple's help me feel comforted in that I'm not alone (thought that for years) however, pulling out of the computer screen and looking around here ... feeling very isolated today.