Had a fabulous 4th of July. D's tried sparklers for the first time. D6 got a spark on her scalp and it was downhill from there. lol I used to be afraid of sparklers as a kid too. We had a great weekend: swam, ate, spent time with friends, stayed up way too late, slept late, had lazy mornings and wonderful days. Now, if I could figure out a way to quit my job and keep the paycheck coming.....
Second mediation appt Tuesday morning. It'll be a long one, and hopefully peaceful. I, typical of me, have done all the paperwork and research. I know many say HE should do the work. Well, he would never do it. Ever. And I want to move on. He hemmed and hawed when I asked him to review his part of it last night. Oh well.
H continues to function on absolutely NO sleep on the weekends. Then drives his motorcycle to and from work. I mentioned how dangerous it is to be so sleep deprived (I *hate* when I pop into "Mommy" role), and he just says "Well, you and the girls will have the life insurance money then". Boo hoo, poor H, let's all pity him. Get some real sleep. You are 36 yrs old.
Well, H is a big boy, and he needs to take care of himself. Continue to detach from him and look to your own needs and the needs of your children. Try not to worry yourself about him.
(I know you know this already. Just reiterating for all of us.)
LWB, I'm so glad that you a wonderful weekend with the girls. I love the little saying you DD4 was saying, "Happy B-day, July", those moments are so priceless. I sure wish I had written down all of the cute things my girls said when they were little.
Originally Posted By: lwb
H continues to function on absolutely NO sleep on the weekends. Then drives his motorcycle to and from work. I mentioned how dangerous it is to be so sleep deprived (I *hate* when I pop into "Mommy" role), and he just says "Well, you and the girls will have the life insurance money then". Boo hoo, poor H, let's all pity him. Get some real sleep. You are 36 yrs old.
They say that a MLC is like them being teenagers again. I truly believe it. My H now has a buddy that is getting a D. They were big running buddies back in their youth. I know that my H will turn wild and party all the time. I worry about them drinking and driving. But, you know there is not a thing we can do, but it doesn't mean we don't still worry because unlike them we do have hearts and morals.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
