Fighting for your H and letting OW know that empowers her to fight even harder for him. Did that ever occur to you? I think you are being taken for a fool. I am sorry to say that, but from all appearances you are controlling the situation and it will push your H further from you.

I say allow God to control the situation because you cannot fix this.

With God, all things are possible.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19