if it'd make you feel good, then go! It may not help to detach, but you're going to be co-parenting anyway, so might as well figure out how to be around him. right?
Sorry lodo, i don't think it is advisable to go if detachment is a challenge for PP. She really needs to go on her own time when he's not there. He's just tempting her again.
He seems to play these games a lot. He will tempt her, she bites, he reels her in, only to hurt PP again and again.
He's treating her like a fish and getting a lot of fun out of it.
Pinky, you need to stop taking his bait and ignore him.
If you can't detach, then AVOID him. Don't put yourself in a position where he can bait you like this.
Keep busy, make plans. If you were already busy with someone you could hav etold him no. You are having trouble because you aren't getting a life. GAL makes detachment easier because you are too busy to get involved with his games.
GAL and you wont have to fight your detachment challenges.
