Helping OW??

[mkultra]

I also remember picking up my H's cell phone and calling the last number that I thought was his fishing buddy that he made numerous late night calls to over and over. When a girl picked up I told her that my H had lied about the number. That my H and I had children. That we were having problems in our marriage but that we were married. And did she know that. This kid just sounded scared and said Yes to all my questions. At least she knew! Some OP are lied to. Who would ever want to be an OP??? <ow self esteem or competitive. Cake eating is OK if your H knows it is rewarding for him to come home. Sometimes making the road home look easy and safe is better alternative to the affair. I think guilt, responsibility, and God are not neccessarily incentives to come home from an affair. What do you think? My H's path home is pretty much faded after a year.