I have read some articles on how to NOT prolong the WAS's affairs. I did all those things and it worked for me! My H's affair ended a natural death in about 4-5 months. He also denied any cheating but phone records and coworkers prove otherwise so finally he admitted it. It is also shocking to get true confirmation. Like adding salt to the wound so it may be best to just assume there was always an affair. It is fairly common. Honestly, when I was a kid I always thought going outside the covenant of marriage was on the same level as murder or prostitution. just something desperate low lifes commit, but we see it has become normalized even though it seems so devastating to the family!!
http://www.smartmarriages.com/infidelity.resources.html


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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