Thank you all for sharing! I sometimes wonder if I am also following in suit with a MLC at times? I look way better than I ever did. I threw away anything remotely frumpy. I used to wear my Mommy sweat suits like a badge of honour because I am a happy Mommy and supposedly I had a husband who worshipped me regardless of how I dressed or weighed. Now I feel like I have to look cute all the time.

Peter Pan is a disturbing sight at almost 40. It goes beyond the weird punky clothes. A lot of people do that in California. It is that he UGH, looks like he is trying attract really young folks.... You are all so comforting. I feel so alone. Most of my friends' husbands have normal or professional jobs and have to wear a certain "uniform". My H does not fit in anywhere. Even the local punk scene must think he looks like a freak. Thanks for the advice to stay focused on my kids.

Question: kids. They hear the snickering but they adore their Dad. What do you say to your kids? Do we just say nothing?


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."