To be here or not to be here

[LL44]

Where did your D get the idea that Daddy's friend is bad? That makes me uncomfortable for such a young age...

H - D, do you want mommy to come have a swim? D - Yes. H - D wants you to come.

My H plays that game all the time. Sometimes I'll join them, sometimes I'll talk directly to my D's and say "Mommy has to run errands/see a friend, but I will see you later!" and move on....