That's an easy one Pink......do what Pink wants to do. Do what you do for Pink. If you want to go, go. Have a good time, be detached. Treat your H like an aquaintance. Be polite etc etc.
DO NOT go unless you want to.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......