Something for you to think about.... Would anything be different to you if H suddenly quit the affair and gave you the papers? Why is the fact that he is in the middle of a PA mean so much? I guess I was the opposite. It was easier for me to think that he left for me another woman then to think that he just left me. I don't know why. Maybe because leaving for another woman is just so much more shocking.
He is going to do this even if you resist. Hold you head high and do what you need to do to take the high road.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08