Well W finally came home and admitted to almost having a meltdown driving home from friends...of course friend was with her but okay. W feels really guilty about how she's been...feeling like she's been neglecting the kids...having gone from 100 percent to less than 10 percent caretaker. I told her to take the space age needs...that I understand why she feels the way she does and not to worry about me or the kids. She continued on for a few more minutes talking and crying and I just listened and validated. I told her that I was taking the kids to the pool later and adjef if she was going to be around for dinner..she said yes and I told her what was on the menu. I also thanked her for ironing my slacks yesterday and that I really appreciated it she respondeed that it was no big deal. I ended the convo and left to post this and reread parts of DR.
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