Hi sh- I saw what you posted on Trusting's thread about over-analyzing. We all have a tendancy to do this from time to time. Just get out of your head and live your life...does it do you any good to analyze what your H says or does? I think you will be happier if you can appreciate the positives and leave it at that.
Now I say that and I think about my own sitch. I admit I want more and so I push. All of DB is so much easier said than done but I believe it is doable...just mind over matter. So how can we adjust our thinking even more?
I bet if felt good to say some of the things you have been wanting to say to your H.
I know it must have hurt when your H was talking about a legal separation or implied about a D. Since you were so upset, I think it shows you aren't ready to completely let go yet but regardless of what happens, it is all only paperwork and really doesn't really change anything.
