What's normal? Is there such a thing? By whose standard?
I think something that DBing gets right is the setting of goals. Still not sure whether it busts any D's but it sure is useful in helping you sort through a sitch that seems intimidating in complexity into steps that are more manageable. So post-D, think about the things that are important to you in your life and the first steps that would take you in that direction. How can you get there? I'd love to hear what they are.
BTW - I agree. Lonely sucks. Physical/emotional intimacy with someone you love is what we all want. At least I do. I don't have a solution, just letting you know I know how you feel.
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