Freak Flag Waver!

[mkultra]

Hi! I am new to MLC. I was in the Separated for one year. I love DB and the principles have saved my sanity but not my M. Although I remain freindly with my H and we spend time together as a family. My children are happy and so am I. The major problem is that much of my H's MLC continues and it reminds me a lot of Heath Ledger, the actor who died recently.

Does anyone else fear that their spouse's MLC could end tragically like that?

I feel that my H's MLC has taken a very nasty toll on his health.

Does anyone else see that? Drugs, drinking, diet, bizarre clothing, risky behavior, bad people, enablers may be a few examples.

I cannot prove what my H does as I did go dark with contact for several months and I did not want to know the sordid details but he does look very bad and almost disturbing.

I would love to talk with other survivors who see these strange creatures in MLC.

No one even recognizes my H anymore.

I wish I could post a before and after pic but the best way to describe it is that movie Cast Away with Tom Hanks! My H actually looked like the Tom Hanks normal Dad man and then he became the Tom Hanks weird cave man on a deserted island, like a homeless weirdo after a 30-40 lb weight loss!!!

He has actually had to call me twice to join him at the City Park because other parents were wondering why he was there, like he looked like a creepy child predator. He said that happens to him all the time. People see him and want to call the cops! I have also had moms come up to me and say their teens were disturbed by my kids' dad's appearance. he may take off his shirt or wear really revealing clothes as if he were a teen age girl. He now weighs about 110 lbS!!!
Help!!