Well, as our therapist says, "Of course you feel this way. You have to. If you thought that you were ruining your kids' lives, there's no way you could do what you're doing." It's a survival technique.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09