Well sounds like you could be on the right track about a possible MLC.

Way to go on the 38lbs, that will boost your confidence. Sounds good on the make-up and dress more feminine. Try to think back if he had ever dropped any hints about what dress style he like in a girl and if that is or can now be you ya might try doing that. I think guys are very visual. I'm sure you are right about him looking at you "that way" it's got to have him thinking. Do it for you, but it would be a bonus for him, he would just be missing out if he were to leave. Good of you to support him, if it doesn't register with him at the moment it may later. If this birth control is working for you stick with it, my W went through about four different ones and her mood was different with each, the one she is on now is the best yet, her mood is way better and consistent and so is he cycle finally, thank God. Not sure on the kids and walking out thing, maybe more of an MLC thing with him. Try not to worry to much about the papers, God can work miracles, just keep praying!