I have heard much about conditions but then I ask myself what conditions God put on people in order for them to come to him. Nothing.
You have your way of dealing with this and of course everyone's beliefs are different.
I just do not see how having conversations with OW is beneficial. Let God deal with her. All I can say is that I know of women who have gotton involved and it just pushed their husbands further away and closer to OW.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19