we had dinner, to talk about me buying her out of her share of our house. unpleasant subject. She haggled about amounts, also. Then we ended up having a long discussion about the past, present, and future(kinda). Not exactly an "R talk", but it was in parts. I also asked her what she wanted for HER future. I tossed up the idea that what she's going through/went through, kinda sounds like an MLC to me.
Was an interesting reaction. a lack of one, mostly. I say interesting, because she could have gone into "That's Riddiculous, how dare you say that about me!" But she didnt get like that at all.
Eh. chatted about lots of things. no real "big things" happened. not sure why i'm even bothering to write this down here, really I dunno.. i guess in some ways, it was the best we've actually "discussed things", for an extended period of time. So... that's a positive thing.
oh well. If she agrees to the amount I suggested, guess I'll be calling back the loan people I talked to last week, with the go ahead to proceed. sigh.
random note: She actually wore a dress. (something I asked if she might do). It was surprising, because it is something that she almost never does, and says she still dislikes. (I used to ask her for years to wear dresses more, then finally gave up). She still doesnt "feel comfortable" wearing them. Which is sad, 'cause she looks really good in it.
meh. some difficult conversation. but I enjoyed being with her, and talking face to face with her alone, just the same. Something I almost never get these days.
Last edited by Dom R; 07/06/0805:32 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
