Honestly, I would not give her the time of day. She is nothing. She is a band-aid as well.
When someone does this, I do believe they are pushing a spouse further away from you.
Maybe I just don't get it but I also feel that ultimatums don't always work as the spouse who is being given the ultimatum tends to think of their spouse as being controlling, manipulative and a mommy-figure.
I would think very hard before doing these things.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
