"I even told her that my anxiety went away until she just called and aasked me for this."
Why Phil? She did not want to hear about her impact on you. She wanted to hear about your day.. and all the great things you did.
"I said I don't like you going to that bar it is a meat market."
She is a big girl now Phil.. she has her own place. She wants to do what she wants to do. She is still showing her attachment with the "Ok.. I will have one and go home."
"I said I think a lot of communication is getting misinterpreted. I think you hear things I'm saying differently and your getting mad."
I think the same thing too. I am sure I could have left that out.. but it says so much. I had to say it. Another point.. she will hear things based upon what she has heard from you before.
No Drama Phil.. Please.. No Drama.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
