"As an adult, you take responsibility for your actions. I'm accepting mine. I don't need to take responsibility for his, nor should I. I still have trouble accepting that someone I viewed as having such high moral and ethical principles would do this. I can't believe this whole sordid event is happening. It's his journey. And I don't hold on to someone who doesn't cherish being with me (though I kept hoping he would change his mind.) It was an unequal partnership."
The butterfly has taken her first solo flight, stretched her wings to their fullest and is accepting she is beautiful. Oh how this comment warmed my heart you are truly looking inwards and seeing what others have seen. With self awareness and acceptance comes strength to love oneself.
I read your posts and see you loving yourself more and more awesome! To realize you weren't the only one at fault speaks volumes to me and should to you also.
So I will say to you what I always do god don't make no junk. I will continue to say that until you can say one day, Brian enough I truly believe it.
