Originally Posted By: jonzy
Wow today is just blah! Have to much time to think and it is driving me crazy! Everyone is gone, my kids flew back to Nebraska today so my helpers with my sanity are gone for 18 days \:\(

The more I start to think about stuff the more I think that the W is with OM! Today I got the vaccuum cleaner and found a note to her about meeting up at room 208 at the Marriott! Saw this transaction on the account some time back in June. Now she is in Cali and went to Disneyland with "friends" but has yet to pay for anything...what a nice guy! Maybe I am reading to much into things, but to me this sounds like se found her happiness with OM. I don't even know what to do anymore!

Any thoughts on what I should do, should I approach her about the note I found or should I just leave it be?


Ted


Ted...

As distractions help in being able to keep your mind off of things only you can truly control your thoughts. So get out and do something, call up some buddies and go out and give it a rest for awhile.

"Maybe I am reading to much into things" Dude take it from me the king of assumption you will only make things WORSE if you go down this cheeseless tunnel. Who knows who the note is from you need more than a note to confront W, ask yourself will doing this bring me closer to my goals or will it take me further away? Stick the note somewhere where only you know, take a step back and see what happens with W. Has she contacted you at all?

As it goes around here give it the 48 hr rule and as I say don't 'react' but 'act' of your own accord. Don't do things out of emotion get your head clear my brother...

Get some good rest go out a GAL like I said to you before take this time that everybody is away to really take a break from it and do some good work on yourself. You can do this I have faith in you...

Brian


Me:46/W:38
D:18/D:12
Bomb: 08/27/07
Seperated: 05/17/08
M:9/T:13