Is this what healing feels like ???

[smartcookie]

then and now;

then; when I went to the kitchen to get myself anything to eat or drink, I'd offer him some of the same. When he went to the kitchen to get himself something he wouldn't offer.

We talked about this numerous times. Yet back in March, one night he forgot to offer me rice pudding. I'm sitting right there next to him, he goes to the kitchen, gets a bowl of pudding, & comes back & starts to eat it in front of me. I got pissed. Am I invisible ???

now;

he offers to get me something.

or, even better;

I say "oh, that looks good, would you please get me some".

I don't have to feel that it's a slight on his part, not to offer me something. I don't have to feel like a victim.