Neil, one day about 5-6 months ago, I stood in my kitchen wondering how I had ended up in this life that I didn't choose.

I knew if I was given a 2nd chance, I wouldn't make the same choices.

I made the 2nd chance happen, just with the original husband. I hope you make the 2nd chance happen.

hugs

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.