Hi LS, I haven't heard of either of those two books.
Sounds like you scored brownie points all the way around, have a great time tonight.
hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.