Okay, I was worried that I got on my soap box & came on too heavy. I can do that when I get all fired up at a DAM.
Did you get the 2nd one yet ?
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.