For the Guy with kids and a WW 6

[hopeful4her]

Hey Doc, thank you. I appreciate your words.

Yeah, you need to read back a bit. Anyone who has kept up with me would agree that what I am doing is a 180 for me.

Ask Puppy

I have ALWAYS treated her like a princess and rescued and done everything for roomie. She is always first for me. She DID surprise me this morning, as she was preparing breakfast and lunch snacks. Then when I thought she wasn't going to ask me if I wanted anything, she did.

I make lunch for myself every week day morning and then ask roomie if she wants me to make her a lunch.

EVERY day. I catch hell for it here

It would seem like I do everything with a thought towards her. Again, going a little dark on her is a total 180 for me. I ALWAYS call her to let her know I on my way home. I ALWAYS call her if I'm going to stop somewhere and if she would like something, too. At the grocery store, I ALWAYS buy her a candy. I ALWAYS call her if we need anything to be picked while on my way home.

Like others have told me and told me and told me. She needs to get an idea of how it is going to be when she moves out.

If she moves out. Papers aren't signed yet.


Roomie called me about 35 minutes ago. I ALWAYS take her call. She said that she was going to stop by her mothers house. Then hit the grocery store for a few things. I ask about the kids. She said they were fine. I told her that I was going to go to the store later, to get something for dinner. She said we have some sausage at home that can be cooked.

I told her, "Oh, well I wasn't sure if you had any plans tonight. I was going in to get some wine and a cigar too." She says, "No, I wasn't planning anything tonight" she said kind of quiet. "Anyway, I wanted to watch all the movies we have". I say, "Thats what I was going to do." We start talking at the same time. "Well if you want to go to the store..." I tell her, "Just go after your mom's and pick up the things. Is your mom ok?"

"Yeah, she just sounded funny on the phone and I...."
"Want to go and rescue her?"
"No, not rescue... just talk. I'll call you when I get to the store and see what you want me to pick up."

Looks like we'll be home together alone. Movie night together.

For those that know me, that is what I wanted anyway.

Yes, I'M a stupe.