I understand, buddy, and was there too. I felt EXACTLY like you do right now and, although I am farther along than you are, I freely confess that I still do feel those same emotions on occaision.
Give her what she wants...1) you have no choice anyway and 2) "what you resist, persists". It sucks, I know...
Tell her that you care about her enough to sacrifice your wants for hers. Agree with everything she says (no matter how one-sided and unfair it is). Listen, affirm that you understand, and do not push or even suggest ANYTHING she doesn't bring up first. Go dark and find happiness within yourself and your life without her. Don't let her drag you into a fight and do not defend yourself...just agree.
If she sees you happy and confident, she may develop 2nd thoughts. MAY...no guarentees and it will take a long time for her to "poke her head out" in the best of circumstances.
I'm sorry, really I am. WAWs are in an "all about me" place and only SHE can decide that the grass is not so green on the other side of the fence. Yes, you feel powerless and helpless to change things between you two and you really are. All you can do is make yourself the type of man she fell for in the first place; the rest is up to her and God.
