One of the people at my dinner part was a single female who I have been out with and have told W I have been out with before. We shall call her L . I have known L for a few years , she was the partner of a good friend , they split not long before me and W . So when either of us needs a partner for an event we tend to drag the other along nothing more nothing less.
Anyway ,before I left work I get this text from W " you dont need to keep L a secret " I just text back " not much of a secret , I have told you that we have been out" .
She went on to say that she chose to leave , is a big girl and she is more than OK with me seeing OW , really honestly.
I get home from work ( winter here ) no one home but W has been and got a fire going for me , so I came home to a warm house.
Last night was takeaway night at our house and W has usualy stayed unless she had something to go to. I asked her if she was going to come . She declined . Not going anywhere just going to stay in. So she stayed alone in her cottage on a cold sat night . I dont think it will do her any harm.