2008 = Crazy Year (3)

[lost_in_space]

Well last one locked up. So on to #3. To recap:

- WW insists on going for D

- I have refusewd (lovingly??) to engage in disc in this regard

- she is livid that I contacted OMW

- last post in prior thread was regarding visit of IL's.

So Sat update. After being called an a$$ kisser yesterday, WW got together with EGF last night. Whatever - more of the same.

Today, I go to gym as WW wakes up (we actually did not sleep in same bed last night but only because I fell asleep watching TV and D10 was in my spot.

I get back and start to do yard work. WW comes out and mentions she will need to be picked up in another city on Jul 28 when S13 goes to hockey camp. Guess that means she has decided to go. Ok - 2 weeks in a hotel room and then 3 days on a houseboat after. Can't stand me though.

Then later she comes out to suntan where I am cutting grass. 2 weeks ago she specifically went in the house when I came out. Another WTF moment! I think she may have wanted me to get into some disc, but I didn't.

This rollercoaster is making me sick - moreso every day.

[hopeful4her]

Hey, a$$ kisser.

Funny how their guilt drives so many things they say to us. Roomie has alluded to that with me and my own kids!

What a stupe.

[lost_in_space]

At least I am in good company then!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Hey, at least both of your wives seem to love your bods, or at least are trying to see if you still love THEIRS! lol

Puppy

[lost_in_space]

Ok I really do not get what is happening. Went to the bbq at EGF's tonight. When we got there, WW pulls a "didn't you bring anything to drink?". WTF - I wasn't sure what the hell was going on at all and I am supposed to know that. S13 says "mom, how was he supposed to know?" ina pi$$ed off tone. So I go and get some refreshments and head back. WW texts me as I get back to just come in as everyone is in back yard. I get in amd she is inside - "did you get my text". I could've blew up but didn't.

Spend 5 hours there - had a blast with the folks there.

Not sure where WW head is at right now with all that has gone on this week (L meeting for her, IC for her, IL chat). She wants to go over finances. I did a monthly summary yesterday and realized if not for bonuses, we would be negative every month. She will be shocked.

Who knows what tomorrow will bring.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Ok I really do not get what is happening. Went to the bbq at EGF's tonight. When we got there, WW pulls a "didn't you bring anything to drink?". WTF - I wasn't sure what the hell was going on at all and I am supposed to know that. S13 says "mom, how was he supposed to know?" ina pi$$ed off tone. So I go and get some refreshments and head back.

Lost,

She's testing you. So why are you having your son speak for you? What did YOU say to defend yourself? And why did you reward her behavior by dutifully trotting out to get drinks?

A better response might have been "Obviously, I wasn't aware of the arrangements. Maybe rather than the disrespectful tone of your lecture -- which I really don't appreciate, by the way -- you might have reminded me before we got here that we should have picked something up. If it bothers you so much, maybe you should run out and get something. Now if you'll excuse me, I see Todd over there (or whatever), and I want to go say hello."

And you walk away.

Puppy

[lost_in_space]

Puppy, was interesting that I only needed something for me. All of the girls were drinking margaritas that EGF was providing.

Yes I should have said something - missed opportunity. Something to learn from.

[lost_in_space]

Let's see if we can get into the financial disc today w/o to an R disc. S/b interesting.

[lost_in_space]

Well, it is silent treatment day today... Very few words said to me at all. Nice. Oh well, I have kept myself busy. Tried a few things of conversation, but she just ignored, almost looking for a confrontation. Sorry, not going there...

I am out and she has D16 call me to pick up some stuff cause friends are coming over for supper. Sheesh

[sgctxok]

Ok I really do not get what is happening. Went to the bbq at EGF's tonight. When we got there, WW pulls a "didn't you bring anything to drink?". WTF - I wasn't sure what the hell was going on at all and I am supposed to know that. S13 says "mom, how was he supposed to know?" ina pi$$ed off tone. So I go and get some refreshments and head back.

Lost,

She's testing you. So why are you having your son speak for you? What did YOU say to defend yourself? And why did you reward her behavior by dutifully trotting out to get drinks?

A better response might have been "Obviously, I wasn't aware of the arrangements. Maybe rather than the disrespectful tone of your lecture -- which I really don't appreciate, by the way -- you might have reminded me before we got here that we should have picked something up. If it bothers you so much, maybe you should run out and get something. Now if you'll excuse me, I see Todd over there (or whatever), and I want to go say hello."

And you walk away.

Puppy

I like that.