Last night H had too much to drink and started cyring about what has happened. Not sure if it is good or not, but he did say sorry over and over. He also said that he has to forgive himself and needs to "live with his guilt for a while". I hope that is a good start to restoring our marriage, but like you my expatations are real low. One day at a time. My H's OW calls all the time, hope that ends soon.
Me 40 H 41 T17/M14 Sons 7 and 4 OW - yes for over a year "I don't know what I want" 5/29/08