I'm so sorry... I think you're right, he felt "rejected", got scared and instead of DBing you, returned to his old MLC ways. Wasnt it only a month or so ago that he signed up for his Motorcycle course? I beleive that he's still very much in the fog.
When my H was leaving after spending a month with us this summer, he said "ILY and always will" and "we're going to be together soon" and "I will come and visit before XMas" and guess what? Next thing I know there is Spider, they rent an apt together and H's telling our friends... Actually, I still don't know what exactly did he tell! I only know that he confessed to an A.
Last time he was here, he told me that after he finally confessed OW, he thought that our M was over and done with. That was when I went totally dark on him. He was calling me, remember? Once every two weeks, but he was calling nevertheless.
Addie, I hope that you have your friends around you now and it's more comforting for you. You have done everything right, everything you could to protect your S and yourself. Now all you can do is wait for H to emerge from his tunnel and convince you that MLC is over.
((((((((HUGS))))))))))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
