Cookie...i think alot of us are in that boat.... i have a lot of clarity on this now....i'm just realizing how little my needs were met in my M and how little i met my W's needs. It's not that we didn't show each other love...we did....just in the way we wanted it showed to US....
a simple miscommunication.
that's what makes things so frustrating for some of us.
I agree completely.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
