Purple, try and remember you are still at the infant stage of all of this stuff. If you have too high of expectations for yourself you will continue to feel like you aren't getting anywhere when in all actuality you are.
Look for the small victories. Look for the small improvements in you and your H. Try not to confuse your current reactions with who you are. When w person is going through this their reactions are generally driven emotionally rather than logically. It does not define who you are at all, it merely states that you are human and your emotions are leading your actions.
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Co Dependent No More; Facing Love Addiction; Where to Draw the Line; How to give a Mind Blowing BJ; Transform Your Life; Loving and Listening
I completely missed the 4th title when I read your post.... You crack me up.......
