Purple, you my dear are a big ole worry wart...not a wussy....
Look, the fact that you have mediation on Monday, it's his Bday tomorrow, etc.... has absolutely no bearing where it comes to right and wrong for you. Shoot off the email. It is basic stuff and he needs to have boundaries. This one is not out of the ordinary. As you said, if you went into his apartment would he send you the same thing, only not so nice?
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I think I am anticipating that he will react badly to it, which in turn makes me pussyfoot around, which p1sses him off regardless.
What is it they say about assuming??????
Ian
ummm...it makes an ar5e out of u and me?
I've sent the email now...time to develop my own backbone though I won't turn down the assistance
And also, like YOU said, if I had gone to his place (if I had a key, which I don't) without saying anything to him even if it was warranted (which it wouldn't be!) I would have been carved up 6 ways before breakfast the next day. At least, that's what I am ASSUMING he would have done!
Oh and yes....you are right, I am a worry wart.
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe
