Purple, you my dear are a big ole worry wart...not a wussy....
Look, the fact that you have mediation on Monday, it's his Bday tomorrow, etc.... has absolutely no bearing where it comes to right and wrong for you. Shoot off the email. It is basic stuff and he needs to have boundaries. This one is not out of the ordinary. As you said, if you went into his apartment would he send you the same thing, only not so nice?
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I think I am anticipating that he will react badly to it, which in turn makes me pussyfoot around, which p1sses him off regardless.
