This is about respect. Without that.. well.. open communication is awfully hard to do. You need to start with setting your boundaries somewhere, to me this should be an easy one to do. But I can understand given the circumstances why it's also hard. Are you 'anticipating' too much? What if you knew NONE of the reprucssions you were worried about for sending this email were to come true? Would you send it then?
((hugs)) to you today.
I know these boards are like a life-line, but just a reminder that this is the 4th of july here and they seem really slow the past 36hours on here... go enjoy your daughter and do something fun for you! We'll be here when you get back.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.