Hey Lan,

Sorry to hear that you are feeling a little down. On my end the sexual part is a little quiet (although the test will be this coming week) so I understand how you feel. It is very difficult but I am trying very hard to keep my hands off.
By the way, if she wants to sleep in on weekends, why don't you get up early and do an activity just for Lan? Leave her a note telling her you will be back soon. A reflection I had this AM. is that maybe once we get to piecing we forget what got us here and fall back on our old habits. Also, we expect too much too quickly.
Try to stay positive even with all the turmoil around. I know it's a sucky feeling to think that we are making all the efforts even though the W was the one who swayed. We need to get over this or we won't make it.
Hang in there Lan. You made it this far, keep plugging away. Remember where we were six months or so ago....that should put things back in perspective.

J